Commander and Chief That Redefines Duty

I wonder how this works given the president is elected to office as commander and chief of the military, but Mr Obama has indicated he doesn't like the military and has done his best to destroy it.

I don't know who wrote this, but there are some good topics for discussion here.

"When a soldier is killed in the line of duty, his family eventually gets a flag and a note conveying sympathy and respect and from the United States Government."

When a pro basketball player announces he is gay, he immediately gets a personal phone call from the President congratulating him for his courage.

 

Am I missing something?