Growing Up Is Difficult! : Especially When Parents Aren't Adults!

The burning question today is, where did the parents in this ''Transition'' situation obtain the idea that 5 year old understands what the adults are saying, telling them it's okay to be a different person if they have to be even if it's someone different than they've been for the last 5 years Now they can be anything  or anybody they want to be. 

Kid just know this stuff at 5 years or even less!

It's easy and fun! Some drugs and or just a sharp knife, no big deal! You can be a different person if you want to be! Cool! Hey, kids understand how important it is to listen to adults that tell them who and what they are! Adults don't lie to children, right?

And what is the truth? Who tells the kids what is
the next step they  have to do to get to where
they to have be members of in any civil society,
the have to grow up first!

But when parents never grew up, how are the kid
going to know when they have finally become
adults?